If I had to say the biggest lesson I’ve learnt (or discovered) so far in my few years on this earth is to meet people where they are at. No one is going to be different to how they are because you want them to be. They may be different tomorrow, but living and waiting for that to happen is a dis service to yourself and them. Just meet people where they are at and take it or leave it – it’s that simple. Growth comes with facilitating space for people to evolve to their best self by sharing the buttons they push in you. But this is where the expectation creeps in and disappointment abounds; where we think we can change people and forget to meet them where they are at. Whether someone changes and grows is irrelevant, maybe they do, maybe they don’t – either way meet them where they are at – or don’t. The power is in your hands, be happy – being right is wrong.